My thoughts about making more time

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Warped timeDo you never seem to have enough time?

I will admit that I tend to put off things I want to do for myself (hobbies, etc.) until after I have wiped all the other tasks off the board. The problem is, the board is never going to be empty as there's always something to do.

It is very important to allocate time for yourself, so instead of trying to finish everything on the board BEFORE you have "me time", put the "me time" on the board too and allocate time to do it.

It sounds simple, but then perhaps it is supposed to be!

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

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The world according to John

If you are reading this, chances are that your partner has sent it on to you; they have a habit of dropping hints like that.

Do you feel you are simply on a different planet to your partner?

Is your partner off doing her “spiritual/alternative health” thing and you just don’t get it?

I’ve been there, perhaps part of me still is.

You know the whole “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus” thing? It’s true; well, not literally perhaps, but men and women communicate differently; it’s just a fact of life.

My wife has been on her alternative health and spiritual journey for 20+ years (since before we got together) and it is a recognised fact that as people evolve spiritually they either fear leaving their loved ones behind, or it actually starts creating rifts between them. Trust me, I’ve been there.

This “spiritual stuff” isn’t as woo-woo as you might think, nor is it religious. Granted you have to have a belief in “something”, whether you call it God or Vishnu of Creator it doesn’t matter. Religion is man-made but I truly believe there is more going on than can be explained by science or even the church. – I’ve seen enough things to be convinced of this.

So if you are willing to try and gain back some of the “lost ground” between you and your partner, why not drop me a line and we can discuss where you can go from here.